Lately, I’ve been reading a lot of blogs and articles from women who have gotten divorced in the past couple of years, and I have to tell you, I’m a little bummed out. All of these women are talking about how two years out of it they feel so free and amazing and great, and I don’t particularly. Not trying to sound bitter or spoiled, I have learned to actually like life again, it’s just not all rockets and single-hood awesomeness. Let’s face it, I’m still living in my parent’s basement with my two children, I do have a job, so that’s a plus, but some days I feel like I’m working in an office that speaks a foreign language, I have no money, and spend it like, well, not as bad as I use to, but there is still vast room for improvement.
I’m not sure if it’s just my personality working against me, or my perpetual depression, but I can get really excited in the short run about life, but after a while the sparkle wears off and I’m right back wondering what the point is again.
I’m still rooting for me though. A few months back, I said to my family, “Don’t you always just want to root for the underdog?”, to which my mom replied, “No, no not really.”
Well that kind of burst my bubble a bit, but I still haven’t changed my personal view. I think we should root for the underdog. Maybe it’s the Cub fan in me, but I still believe that an underdog can succeed because someone does root for them. All it takes is a little belief from others and big stuff can happen, probably, I mean maybe, or not in my lifetime, but eventually, right? (Because now I’m thinking in terms of the good ole’ Cubbies…and I have to be realistic, it might not ever happen in my lifetime, but maybe my kid’s lifetime?)
Anyway, I think we are supposed to root for the underdog. Who are we to judge someone else? Why are they any less likely to succeed than the rest of us? Just because they are different? Or because life’s circumstances have dictated otherwise? Aren’t we all capable of something? Einstein once said, “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” Wow, that really puts it into perspective for me. Now I just have to find out what my genius is. And a little rooting for the underdog wouldn’t help either, so if you’re rooting, you could “like” this post. 😉